:: ..Happy Friday faithful readers!! Well…I’m sure most of you are wondering who
this mystery guy is…lol…and just who those mystery texts are from….and WHAT on EARTH
am I thinking, feeling or better yet PRAYING!! Well…..let me tell you…..
….his name is Frankie…and yeah, he’s my friend on FB…yeah he’s
older, but I prefer older guys…if you go and look at his pics, you will
probably think like I did…this dude looks really old…..but TRUST ME…his pics do
him NO justice…Frankie, I know you will eventually be reading this… It’s time
for some NEW PICS…lololololol…hey if I didn’t speak the truth, then I wouldn’t
be me… and I can be your photographer, just let me know when!! LOL……
…lots of people ask me “Why do you like older men!?”…….I‘ve
often asked myself that too, and well, let me tell ya! ….I am a goofy girl…super
goofy…and almost childish at times….who admits to being childish?…I do. But in
a good way…and having someone older, balances my goofiness I think…I enjoy the
comfort from having someone older there for me, able to relate to me, someone
that has been through a few things in life and wouldn’t be scared to jump in and be a father figure to
SJ, unlike younger guys…..there’s just something about a man who has his life
together, and who WANTS to support a woman and her child ….I don’t care what
anyone says…I look forward to the day a man can take care of me and SJ…for so
many reasons….and in return, I look forward to doing the same for him……but the
way I want to take care of a man is far beyond what some of them want…..
…..which brings me to one of the mystery texts……you know the
one that asked…how is your date going? Well, it was from a guy….that if (going
strictly by my flesh) is hands down the most gorgeous man I’ve seen in about 2 years…I mean like…his eyes, his body,
his personality, his smile, his laugh, the way he looks in oily clothes…omg, I
could go on and on… ladies…you catch my drift right? Well, he told me straight
up…if you were to be my girl….you would take such good care of me…FOR REAL, I
just know it! I laughed so hard and said, what do you mean? He said, there’s just
something different about you, you have a deep kind of love for people. He
doesn’t know it’s JESUS…Well, he’s younger, he’s my age, he comes from a good
family, and has a very positive outlook on life… but he has absolutely nothing
to offer me and SJ……he just started working….he has baby mama drama…he has NO
God in him……and worst of all….he just got out of prison….so why do you talk to
him you may ask….Well first of all, if I spoke to nothing but God filled people
and never gave the lost the time of day…how could I ever teach them about JESUS?….Yeah he’s
mentioned that he’s interested, it’s
obvious…but I tell him, you have no idea how to treat a woman like me…I’m of a
different kind…told him we could be friends and invited him to church, told him
that if he ever needed anyone to talk to, I was here……Not long after our talks
started, I began the process of talking to him about God, he’s very interested
in learning….even claims he knows the bible and that Revelation is his favorite
book , which is GOOD… But some guys need to hear about Jesus from another male…I
come off too hard, just ask the last one…he’s not even my friend anymore (
Joshee)!!….But who knows what will happen with this guy named Richard……I respect
him for being the only guy that stepped up to the plate to help wash cars last
Saturday…..he’s the only guy who has ever offered to wash my car period… and to
this day…the only guy to ever call me in the middle of the night and say PRAY
for me……see something is going on in his heart, and if the Holy Spirit is right
(which he always is)…he’s been put in my life on purpose…maybe it’s so I can teach
him and lead him to Jesus , so that he can eventually work things out with his
baby momma….or who knows….maybe he’s been put in my life to change my last name……
……which brings me to the next text…..you know the one that said..hey,
what’s up?...well it was from yet another guy…who I’ve only known for about two
weeks…let me rephrase that…we went to school together but he was terribly shy
and I don’t ever remember him saying two words! About two weeks ago, he hit me up on fb….we
chatted it up there, exchanged phone numbers and started talking on the phone..….the
first thing we talked about, was our singleness. He mentioned that HE WAS READY….ready
for what…to settle down and get married…OH WOW…finally, a guy that feels the
same way I do…ok, well there’s one thing we have in common……he seems like a
great guy, he’s very educated, comes for ma good family it seems…..but as with
pro’s there are things called con’s……and this guy admitted …..I hardly have a
life… I work ALLL of the time…….. for those that know me the best…..I stay away
from those kinds…….and they know exactly why......which brings me back to
Frankie….
…..Frankie is always working too. Frankie is a bit of a
party animal, and Frankie isn’t where I am at, with God. (He’ll email me later on to tell me..” I do
not party like that!”)…lol…ok, so maybe he has a beer or two at every bbq…..and
from what I hear…he’s always bbq’ing!! And in Frankie’s eyes…that means he’s
not a party animal……Frankie is more faithful to karaoke nights than he is to church…Frankie
is the sweetest man I’ve meant in about 5 years….but what Frankie needs to
know, is that I am not about to compromise who I am, what I believe and what I want
just because I want a man…please…lonely, yes I do get at times….desperate….ummm
NEVER…..I can see past his flaws, I can
be around it and not feel tempted, but why would I have to??...…and especially
with SJ….she sees beers, and immediately she wants to leave and pray for the people
getting “drunk” she says..… What can I say…I’ve trained her that way….I would
never ask anyone to change who they were on my behalf…. I would want them to be
so in love with GOD that the change just came natural..…
…you see there is nothing wrong with talking to guys,
nothing wrong with having guy friends, nothing wrong with going on a date every
now and then…and nothing wrong with BLOGGING about it…lol.…..but my advice to
all the single chicks……KNOW YOUR WORTH AND KNOW WHAT YOU WANT….be willing to
NEVER COMPROMISE…..NO matter how GORGEOUS he is, no matter how SWEET he is, and
no matter how EDUCATED he is…you are VALUABLE and if it takes years for some
guy to realize it…don’t fret…there is lots of fun to being single, and the patience you’ve grown while waiting will
bless you in your relationship…..
….well it’s been fun sharing with you guys on this lovely
Friday afternoon….but I must get ready…I’ve got a date with one of the mystery
guys tonight… ;)…and hopefully he won’t mind me blogging about him either….
Loves,
~Monica
…oh yeah…and a quick favor…if you enjoyed reading this….please
let me know by liking it on my FB…I wanna know that my future books will be
best sellers!! LOL!!
Blog 7
4/12/13
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